Relationship Reflection

The positive relationships I have are my steady ground in life. Each of them provides me with various types of support and guidance. I have heard so many mention their mother as their best friend, but both my mother and father fill that position. They provide positive guidance ans support in the many challenges I face being a teacher whether it is simply by listening to me "vent" about my day, or by coming over and helping me with whatever task I may have. I feel this relationship is built on love. The second relationship is with my significant other, John. This relationship was built from friendship, respect, and love. Through all the changes we have encountered since we met, I have had him as a rock in my life. He truly cares about my well-being and is extremely supportive of the many journeys I embark regardless of how challenging they may seem.

These relationships remain positive and strong because I feel each of us takes the time to "maintain" them.  A positive relationship is not a one way street, but requires both sides to remain positive and strong. While each of these relationships provide me with many things, I also try my best to show how much I care, and support them as well.  I feel this often is a challenge and can lead to many failed partnerships/relationships. We must ensure that we take the time to keep these relationships strong.

I find that these relationships directly correlate with my ability to be an effective educator. These relationships provide me with support in developing ideas and activities that can be effective teaching strategies with my students.It is these relationships that motivate me and often remind me of my passion for working with children ( especially when times are hard).  Knowing how important relationships are, I strive to develop positive relationships with parents and children that can help me be more effective and provide the best for my students.