Tuesday, November 22, 2011

My Connections to Play

Quotes for Play

Creative play is like a spring that bubbles up deep within a child. Joan Almon

It is in play, and only in play, that the individual child or adult is able to be creative and to use the whole personality, and it is only in being creative that the individual discovers the self. D.W. Winncott



A partially wooded area filled with sticks, leaves, trees, and many other “hidden treasures” would be an excellent place to let your imagination soar. It is here that you can be anything. As the youngest and only girl of four children, finding someone to play ball with was never a problem. We would not always play the structured sports game, but create our own; make our own rules.
Support for play
Growing up in such a large family there was always someone to play with. My mother encouraged free play. She would often join in on the silly, creative forms of play our imagination desired. Whether it was thinking of the woods as a journey to finding treasure, playing princess (yes, my brothers played princess with me), or it was creating forts the size of our living room.  While I never thought about it then, these were all ways my parents supported play as a learning opportunity. It was a chance to develop our problem solving skills, cognitive, and motor skills.  One similarity I see between play when I was a child and play is the amount of enjoyment children get from it. However, the difference is the amount of play we see. While many of the same materials we used for play still exist, we often are not seeing them used. Imagination is quickly becoming an unknown concept. Video games, Internet, television, and other electronic equipment are taking away the very powerful learning opportunities free play provided.  While I do not feel all of these new, popular toys are bad, I do feel it is eliminating an outstanding opportunity to children to think on another level and use more cognitive thinking skills than these new toys are requiring. My hope is that as time goes on, the desire for electronic games would decrease and the desire to explore nature’s learning environment would increase. By embracing the imagination and creative play, we may find that the mastery of academic skills we are pushing will become quiet easier, for Almon (2002) does tell us that a link exists between play and learning.  We don’t often think about adults and play together, but play does have an impact on us as adults. Play provides the foundation on which we build all other knowledge and skills. It is one of the first learning opportunities we have to “think outside of the box”; something we all do as adults.

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Relationship Reflection

The positive relationships I have are my steady ground in life. Each of them provides me with various types of support and guidance. I have heard so many mention their mother as their best friend, but both my mother and father fill that position. They provide positive guidance ans support in the many challenges I face being a teacher whether it is simply by listening to me "vent" about my day, or by coming over and helping me with whatever task I may have. I feel this relationship is built on love. The second relationship is with my significant other, John. This relationship was built from friendship, respect, and love. Through all the changes we have encountered since we met, I have had him as a rock in my life. He truly cares about my well-being and is extremely supportive of the many journeys I embark regardless of how challenging they may seem.



These relationships remain positive and strong because I feel each of us takes the time to "maintain" them.  A positive relationship is not a one way street, but requires both sides to remain positive and strong. While each of these relationships provide me with many things, I also try my best to show how much I care, and support them as well.  I feel this often is a challenge and can lead to many failed partnerships/relationships. We must ensure that we take the time to keep these relationships strong.

I find that these relationships directly correlate with my ability to be an effective educator. These relationships provide me with support in developing ideas and activities that can be effective teaching strategies with my students.It is these relationships that motivate me and often remind me of my passion for working with children ( especially when times are hard).  Knowing how important relationships are, I strive to develop positive relationships with parents and children that can help me be more effective and provide the best for my students.